“My mother registered me in a quiet moment after Maghrib. Three weeks later I was speaking to his family. We married in Ramadan.”
A serious halal matrimonial platform. No photos in the feed. No casual chat. Describe what matters to you — our AI surfaces the closest fits, and contact reveals only when you choose.
Your preference
“Practising, family-rooted, doctor or engineer, 26–32, Colombo.”
Built for serious intentions, no swipe culture.
Index-only feed. Contact reveals on your terms.
Your words, embedded into a 1,536-dim semantic vector.
Parents and guardians can search on behalf.
We removed everything that makes other matrimonial apps feel like dating apps — photos, swipes, public chat. What's left is what families actually need.
No photos in the feed. No swipes. Decisions on substance — values, faith, character.
Phone & WhatsApp encrypted at rest. Never exposed in any list or unauthenticated query.
Parents, siblings, and guardians can register and search on behalf with full discretion.
No casual chat. Built only for those genuinely searching for marriage, in shaa Allah.
Family-honest fields only — values, faith, profession, what you bring and what you seek. No photos. Five minutes.
Describe your preference in plain words. AI ranks every profile by semantic closeness, refreshed live.
Spend points to unlock phone and WhatsApp on profiles that feel right. Unlocks are permanent — family to family.
No hard filters. Write your preference in your own words — “practising, modest, willing to relocate” — and a 1,536-dim embedding ranks every profile by semantic closeness, refreshed the moment your preferences change.
A 1,536-dim semantic vector — not keyword filters. “Soft-spoken, family-rooted” actually means something to the engine.
Update your preference and the feed re-sorts on the next load. No nightly batch, no waiting.
We embed structured profile facts and your preference text only. Phone, email, full name — never sent to any AI provider.
Phone and WhatsApp are locked by default. Profiles surface only an index number, age, city, and a few honest paragraphs. We never expose your contact in any list, search result, or unauthenticated query.
Each profile is reviewed by our team. Suspicious accounts removed within 24 hours.
Hide your profile from specific districts, communities, or anyone you choose.
Age, city, education, marital history. Soft filters that complement AI ranking.
Family-honest fields with thoughtful guidance — no awkward dating-app prompts.
No "see who likes you" loops. No swipe streaks. Built for serious search.
Conversations move to WhatsApp once families exchange contact, never in public DMs.
Names and details anonymised. Real quotes, real marriages, alhamdulillah.
From our families
“My mother registered me in a quiet moment after Maghrib. Three weeks later I was speaking to his family. We married in Ramadan.”
Start with 40 free points and explore the platform. Upgrade when you’re ready to view more profiles and unlock better match suggestions. Packs never expire.
40 free points on signup — Explore profiles & experience the platform. Ideal for new users.
300 points · view up to 15 profiles
1,400 points · view up to 70 profiles
2,500 points · view up to 125 profiles
Boost your profile visibility. Get noticed by more suitable matches.
RuhMate is anonymous by design. Families decide on substance — values, faith, character — before looks. Once you reveal contact, you can share photos privately on your own terms.
You describe what you are looking for in plain words. We embed your preference into a semantic vector and rank every published profile by closeness. No phone, email, or full name ever leaves our database.
Every member starts with 40 free points. Viewing a profile — revealing its phone and WhatsApp contact — costs 20 points. Buy more in packs whenever you’re ready; points never expire and each profile you view stays unlocked for you.
Yes. Your contact details stay hidden until someone unlocks them. We never expose your phone or WhatsApp in any list or unauthenticated view, and we never send personal details to AI providers.
Yes — that is the entire point. No photos, no chat, no swiping. Index-only profiles, family-honest fields, and a clear path from interest to contact. Built for serious intentions only.
Build your profile in five minutes. See AI-ranked matches on your very first feed load.